7 STEPS TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH A TOTAL STRANGER
Relationship as being defines by a lot of people with different meanings but I will say relating with people is an act of creating a friendly atmosphere between yourself and a total stranger. Before a relationship can be said to start there must be a reason for the relationship. There must be an achievement during the relationship or after the relationship. Someone must be at giving end and the other at the receiving end or both parties exchanging something.
I have being able to discover 7 steps to have a successful relationship with a total stranger. And these include:
1. CREATING A FIRST IMPRESSION.
As we all have heard that first impression goes a very long way. To create a first impression on a stranger will cost you a lot of things. Among which is humility. Never let the action of the stranger drive you to misbehave but let your own humility and respect compel him/her to listen to you even if the stranger is so rude instead of you altering a dirty word instead leave the scene and wait for the person to leave that spot and walk up to him/her again and still be polite and respectful do not use rude words but use words like please can i…………,may I be allowed to……………..,e.t.c. Make sure that every words you alter is filled with respect. The stranger will feel respected and honored.
See this with me he/she will always remember that. Ask for the person’s name and never address the person without using an initial for example call the person by Mr. Joseph instead of Joseph.
Also, throw discussions on the very place you met him or her for example if you met at a coffee shop bring up a conversation about that shop and that may possibly lead to another topic entirely and it may give the opportunity to know more about the stranger.
2. TALK TO THE STRANGER SMILING
Through out your talk, wear a smiling face all through no matter what the stranger might be saying never let what his present actions provoke but let your goal be what will make you smile.
While talking to the stranger, make sure you briefly talk about your reason(s) for trying talk to him/her.
3. ASK POLITELY FOR THE STRANGER CONTACT INFORMATION.
Do not be in an hurry that you will forget to get the contact to ask for the contact address make sure that you have at least a way by which you can contact him.
In the process of asking for the contact address make sure you give your contact information to him first and you do that in more polite and matured way by asking in this form “may I give you my contact information” He/She will defiantly know that you are referring to exchange of address but if dosen’t want to exchange it then you will ask for it in a polite form like “like please may I be permitted to have your contact information. M sure he will give you at least one out all his contact information.
4. BACK UP WHAT YOU HAVE STARTED
Now you are having a way of contacting him maybe he/she gave you his/her mobile number then that’s a medium by which you can talk to him/her send text e.t.c.
From your mobile you can talk to him/her. You should not talk to him/her during work hours make call in evening period when you know that the work period is over greet him well and ask about his/her day do that for some period of time tell him/her tedious your day was and so on.
5. ASK IF YOU CAN COME VISITING SOME WEEKEND OR YOU BOTH SHOULD GO OUT FOR LUNCH.
Before yo propose this to him/her you both should have a kind of good flow of communication on phone. Then this step is going to work more quickly.
6. Make friend with your friend’s friends.
Try to make friend with your friend’s friends so as make you know more about him/her. Anytime you are with his friends try to raise issues about him they will certainly talk about him/her then you will be able to know who the person really is. Use all the positive things they said about him/her to surprise him/her for example, give the person a gift that he/she loves most. Never let him/her know the source of what you are giving to him/her.
Repeat this often and often.
7. Make you intentions known to him/her in full.
By now you should be able to know what he/she likes and dislikes so you should when to talk to him/her and when not to.
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